Negative Self Talk Leads to "Self Sabotage" in Business
So you Started your New (Network Marketing Business)..
You’re super excited, you know “THIS IS THE ONE!”
And it’s going to work this time, and it’s the holy freaking, grail…
So you get all set up to get going, and as you sit there at your computer, you hear this annoying little chatter in your head…
“Why bother, you failed last time?”
“You’re not good enough to make this happen”
“You’ll never be able to compete with those other Internet Marketers who make way more money than you”…
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It’s Called, Negative “self-Talk” and it can severely impact your business, and your life.
This Negative Chatter is a combination of lots of things.
Perhaps “baggage” from your past, or recorded conversations etched in your mind of friends and family members expresseing their disbelief or non-support in your efforts to finally make something of yourself.
How do you overcome this negative Self-Talk?
Well, the first thing I would suggest is taking out a sheet of paper and writing all the great things about yourself.
Don’t kid yourself..
Get Real, you know there are REALLY GREAT Things about you…
Then, think of the people who you really look up to and admire…
Write those characteristics down…
Why?
Because what you see in others, you see in yourSELF..
The only difference is, the people you admire, are expressing it…and demonstrating it..
Then it’s a matter of getting into the habit of focusing on the better part of you…and -re=programming your self-talk to something that is healthier and more positive.
One thing that helped me personally with this, was a Course Called SupermindÂÂ
This course will help with the FUNDAMENTAL layer of your business, which is YOU…
Supermind will help you if you have low self-esteem, low self-confidence and just negative self-talk in general…
Look, it’s really not your fault..
There are all kinds of people and circumstances that passively contribute to the Self-Talk you practice…
The important thing is to understand what it is, why you do it, and then CORRECT it…
Supermind has helped many of my colleagues, I worked closely with one who lost over 120 pounds with the Supermind Course.
Here’s one tip you can apply right now, to help get your body and mind into a more elevated state.
Understand that we act based upon our emotions…
When our emotions are at a “low level” we tend to take actions, (or in-actions) according to our emotional level at that moment…
Ever done something “stupid” when you’re angry?
Well, start changing your state by doing something as simple as smiling.
It will literally change your body chemistry, and you will feel that positive thoughts will start to flow into your mind…
Another really helpful tool is the 10/10 Visualization method…
This method has really helped one of my proteges. She Swears by Supermind and this 10/10 Excercise…
One of the things that the 10/10 excercise focuses on is “GRATITUDE”
When you feel frustrated or feel that you are talking negatively to yourself…
Quick, grab a piece of paper and pen, and sit down and write the things you are grateful for…
This will not only bring you back to “Balance” emotionally, but it will actually make you feel better.. TRY IT..
Here is a video that will help you…
Barbie Figueroa
305-245-2861
No commentsThe "Revolving Door" of Attrition…
It never fails…
You’ve Recruited a bunch of people into your Downline (if things are going well for you, of course) and soon enough, they start dropping like flies..
You have as many people going out, as fast as they came in..
This is one of the FRUSTRATIING things about buidling and MLM Downline…
What have I done to fix this situation?
I have a BIGGER VISON.
Instead of focusing on just building a downline at my Leaders Club I am also earning through my Funded Proposal so that even when people LEAVE, which they always do..
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(Some will, Some won’t, So what…NEXT!)
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I have guaranteed that I would have earned money from that prospect at some point whether they stay in my downline or not..
This is why I always LEAD with Training, Tools and Coaching…
This is seeing the BIGGER PICTURE in your Business…
In Future entries, I will be breaking down what a FUNDED PROPOSAL is…
If you are not using one…you are probably burning your money faster than you can earn it back…and a Funded proposal offsets your main costs of doing business in network marketing which is Advertising and paying for leads…
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I will also discuss how you CAN Monetize Leads that you pay for, without EVER having to cold call them!
There is a *Little Known* Secret, that nobody really talks about on the internet.. t hat I KNOW…
and that Works Like GANG BUSTERS…
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Stay Tuned for More….
Barbie Figueroa
305-245-2861
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